Guild

Social Alignment Upgrades

Here are some key upgrades you'll explore in Guild:

1. Growth-oriented friends

• Enjoy dynamic relationships with people who actively seek growth opportunities.
• Co-invest in helping each other grow, and celebrate your gains together.
• Connect with people who care about you and who are willing and able to challenge you.
• Build intimacy with a growth-oriented primary partner.
• Embrace people who introduce you to fresh ideas and possibilities.
• Mastermind with your friends on creative and business projects.

2. Full-range friendships

• Replace shallowness with range and depth.
• Replace mono-dimensional compatibility with multifaceted compatibility (more value per person).
• Replace lukewarm relationships (“friendly but not friends”) with warm, heart-centered ones.
• Enjoy holistic body-mind-heart-spirit connections (connect mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually).
• Invest in like-minded people with similar priorities, values, and interests.
• Enjoy multiple activities, experiences, and modes of connecting with the same people.

3. Energizing and rewarding relationships

• Feel restored and renewed from your social time, not drained.
• Anticipate social time with enthusiasm and excitement.
• Enjoy a low-maintenance, self-sustaining flow of desirable invitations.
• Keep your social life fresh and pleasantly stimulating (not boring or overwhelming).
• Replace a fatiguing invitation or coordination process with an aligned and motivating approach.
• Enjoy camaraderie and fun with others as a normal part of your lifestyle.
• Ensure that your social rewards amply justify your social investments.

4. Social and personal integration

• Replace multiple masks with shameless self-expression.
• Practice discernment to build intimacy with aligned matches.
• Discover the hidden strengths behind social awkwardness.
• Enjoy forgiving, anti-fragile, resilient relationships (not flakiness or skittishness).
• Love who you are and who you’re becoming because of your friends.
• Merge your character growth with your social growth.

5. Free-flowing social abundance

• Build up your social bandwidth and capacity.
• Develop an abundant yet manageable social moat through which aligned connections bubble up with relative ease.
• Upgrade from a mismatch-rich environment to an alignment-rich environment.
• Replace neediness and social scarcity with a heartset of social abundance.
• Know how to satisfy your social needs without being needy.

So this really is the ultimate social alignment deep dive. ❤️

Core Topics Covered

Here’s the main list of topics that we covered in Guild:

1. Welcoming & Social Joy
2. Your Social Why + Finding Matches
3. Social Resistance
4. Trust Wounds
5. Boundaries
6. Social Expansion
7. Depth & Intimacy
8. Deeper Depth
9. Belongingness
10. Invitations
11. Social Time & Energy Management
12. Social Gravity
13. Social Realignment
14. Social Leadership
15. Social Visibility
16. Rejection
17. Conflict Resolution
18. Masterminding
19. Humor
20. Romantic Connections
21. Social Interfaces
22. Inner Relationships
23. Social Courage
24. Flirting
25. Managing Expectations
26. Sex
27. More Sex
28. Awkwardness
29. Receiving
30. Transitions & New Beginnings

Truthfully we covered many more topics than are listed here. This is just the main list of core topics for each day of the course. Lots of ideas were shared organically and spontaneously as well since it was a very co-creative experience. Interestingly this list wasn’t created in advance. It emerged organically based on the flow of what participants wanted to cover each day.

Powerful Intentions

Here's an additional intention experiment that you can do while enjoying the Guild course:

In an easy and relaxed manner, in a healthy and positive way, in its own perfect time, for the highest good of all, I intend and invite a beautifully aligned, growth-oriented, and mutually appreciative social circle to flow into my life. I intend positive results and prosperous journeys for the other participants of this deep dive as well – past, present, and future.

I'm holding this intention with you, so let's co-create some beautiful social upgrades for the whole group.

Price

Your investment in the Guild deep dive course is $497.

It's one price all-in. There aren't any tiers, scholarships, payment plans, or refunds.

Honor Code

All of our courses, including Guild, have a "no refunds" honor code policy because we need to know that you have some skin in the game. If you enroll, please do so because you're committed to applying the lessons to create real changes in your life for the better. Our courses are for doers, not dabblers. I want you to get results, and you must feel invested for that to happen.

To buy the course without a money-back guarantee, you have to trust me, and you have to trust yourself to follow through. That's the standard I want. I want you to trust me, and I want you to trust yourself. So you only have to make one decision here: Are you in?

The bottom line is that you'll get better results if you go all-in with a genuine commitment, and I'm a lot happier to work with this caliber of people. For those who need a money-back guarantee to tip them into enrolling, you're welcome to enjoy all the free content this site has to offer for as long as you like. This course will remain available indefinitely, so it will be here for you when you're ready to invest.

Note that you can repeat our courses again and again for many years, so you'll have abundant opportunities to extract good value from your investment. This site has been online continuously since 2004 to give you an idea of its longevity.

Course Supplements and Bonus Gifts

Guild includes abundant supplementary material and extra gifts to further enhance your social upgrades. Some of these are free resources available elsewhere on this site, and some are created just for this deep dive. I've assembled them into one convenient collection for you.